When Life Gets in the Way: My Writing Slump During a Big Move

I haven't written here for several weeks now. But it's not just here on my blog. I haven't done any writing at all for the last few weeks.

As I said recently, Dean and I have been refurbishing a house ready for moving in.

Naturally, as with everything in life, it took longer than expected. It was compounded by the problem of the company supplying our new kitchen and bathroom being weeks behind schedule, plus they made many mistakes that they had to come and correct, like the oven being installed crookedly, one kitchen cupboard door hanging down off its hinges, and installing the wrong kitchen sink tap. But in the end, we managed to move in, after spending twelve-hour days here doing most of the work ourselves.

It was so exhausting getting up early every morning and going to the new house to work straight after breakfast, and not getting home till well after dark. We'd then have showers, have dinner, then fall into bed late, only to get up and do it all again the next day.

So that is why I've been unable to write. Too physically exhausted and feeling brain-dead by the end of the day. But now we've moved in and after two weeks( exactly) we've unpacked everything, shopped for groceries(food stocks were pretty depleted) and regained full use of our aching limbs. Our arms and legs were stiffening up every night from all the physical labour.

One positive thing about being so busy every day was that it gave me plenty of time to think. And I thought about everything:

• My health
• My diet
• My income
• The books I want to write
• Marketing to sell more books
• My blog and how to improve it
• My websites and additions to make
• How to make social media work for me
• Doing more freelance submissions
• Doing more sewing, knitting, and crocheting
• My best hours for writing
• How to schedule my working days better
• And a whole lot more.

I also thought a lot about how much I dislike painting walls and skirting boards, how much I wished that so-called 'professional' cabinet makers could install a kitchen and bathroom correctly, and how much I wanted my normal life back.

Yesterday we took a well-deserved day off and went to the beach. We had lunch in a park, and then I sat and wrote out plans in my notebook for all the things I thought about while we were fixing and decorating our new house. As I sat and wrote, I realised just how much 

I'd missed writing, and I wondered why it was so. Is writing simply something I like to do, or is it an addiction?

I figured that it's not an addiction otherwise I wouldn't have been able to go without doing it for nearly two months.

And it's more than something I just enjoy doing because I can't imagine my life without writing being a part of it.

I think that being a writer is my mission in life. It's a part of who I am. It's not a job I do, it's what I have to do, and I can't imagine retiring from it when I get to old-age pension age.

I guess I'm Mission Critical For Life when it comes to writing. And that's a great way to be.

And if you're interested, here are a couple of before-and-after shots inside our new house.

Old Hallway

New Hallway

Old Living Room

New Living Room

New House & 15 Minutes Daily Writing

I am seriously enjoying my new Kindle Scribe and I've been using it to write all my blog posts and articles. The handwriting recognition software it has converts my scrappy writing to text effortlessly and accurately.

Sadly though, I haven't had much time to use it lately (not even for reading) because Dean and I have been busy because we bought a house. 

As you know, we had to sell our apartment late last year and have been renting a house for the last 8 months. And after months of searching we finally found a house we liked and bought it. Unfortunately, it needs a lot of work done to it, including having a new kitchen and bathroom put in, and a complete clean inside and out, and a complete paint job.

The house was owned by an elderly man who lived there for years and, it seems, let the place go to hell. We daren't even think about the junk-filled, overgrown garden yet. But what the house does have is amazing potential and a nice open layout.

We've spent the last couple of weeks cleaning and repairing the place, and it's looking (and smelling) so much better already.

The problem is that in addition to spending a lot of time working on the new house, we still have everything to do at home, too (at the rental house where we still live until the new house is habitable). So we are extremely busy and exhausted, and most days I'm too exhausted to write or read on my Kindle Scribe or do much of anything else.

One of the ebooks I was reading on my Scribe was Dorothea Brande's Becoming a Writer.

In it, she says that to be able to write more, you should write for at least an hour first thing every morning and for 15 minutes later every day. I wanted to get up and write every day, but at the moment, mornings are only for getting up, having breakfast, and heading straight over to the new house to work. But I thought I could write for 15 minutes at the end of every day, because I'm the author of 'How To Write an Article in 15 minutes or Less,' so how hard could it be? I managed the 15 minutes of writing every day for about 5 days, but it was tough because I'm always so damn tired at the end of every day now. One day I was so exhausted that my hands were shaking. Eventually, I decided to just give it up for now and try it again once my life is back to normal, and I'm not physically exhausted every day. I don't think I've ever been this tired in my whole life. Maybe I'm just getting too old for all this.

But while I was doing the 15 minutes of writing every day, I enjoyed it, and it was good to have a set daily writing habit. It was good until the last day, when I was so tired I felt brain dead and could hardly think at all. So I went to bed instead, even though it was only 7.30 pm. And I slept for ten and a half hours, so I must have been more tired than I realised.

If you want to grab a copy of Dorothea's ebook, it's only 99 cents on Kindle, and it's fascinating and insightful about how to write more. https://amzn.to/471PX6E 

And now it's late (well, not really, but I'm exhausted all the same), so I need my rest. Boy do I need it.

I'll try and still post on my blog when I can, but if I do go MIA you'll know why.

We're aiming to finish the house and move in six weeks.

Fingers crossed. 

Jackolantern

I don't often send out a sales post, but I just couldn't help myself this time because I'm so excited about my new novel.

It's a Halloween horror story called Jackolantern.

Here is the blurb:

When Gerald came home and found a jackolantern on his porch, he thought it was nothing more than an unwanted Halloween gift from a neighbour.

But it was much more sinister than that.

No matter how many times he got rid of it, the jackolantern returned, angrier than ever.

Eventually Gerald discovered what was really happening.

But was he too late?

This is a book that I had fun writing. 

It's the second horror novel in my Campfire Series of three books.

The first one was called Mackarb: A story so frightening that it cannot be told around a campfire near the woods, or worse, in the woods.

You can read more about Mackarb at https://www.cheritonhousepublishing.com/books/mackarb.html

Jackolantern is available to preorder and will be published on 1st September 2025.

You can preorder/buy it as a paperback novel or an ebook from Amazon, Kobo, Barnes & Noble and ebooks.com or any other bookstore. If you want to borrow it from your local library, put in a purchase request for them to buy a copy.

Or pre-order now from your favourite bookstore.

https://www.cheritonhousepublishing.com/books/jackolantern.html 

Happy reading

Free eBooks, Free Writing Competitions, and High-Paying Writing Markets

 For July 2025

Today I’ve gathered a few interesting and (hopefully) useful items for you to help you write more, earn more, and relax.

There are links to 3 free murder, mystery ebooks, 8 horror writing markets, free-to-enter writing competitions, and a link to a huge list of paying article writing markets.

Enjoy.

(Currently) Free ebooks:

  Imposter Syndrome: A Gripping Psychological Thriller

https://amzn.to/4lJiu53 

THE PICASSO SCAM: a gripping Yorkshire crime thriller full of twists (Detective Charlie Priest Mysteries Book 1)

https://amzn.to/40abWnS 

Whispers in the Fog: A Christian Suspense and Mystery Novel (Shadows of Harbor Point)

https://amzn.to/4eGuB0k 

Write for Magazines: 50 Magazines That Pay for Articles

https://makealivingwriting.com/write-for-magazines/ 

Free Entry Writing Competitions

https://womagwriter.blogspot.com/2025/07/more-free-entry-writing-competitions.html 

New or Reopening Market Listings/ Notes At Minimum Pro-Paying (5 cents+ per word)

https://ericjguignard.blogspot.com 

Start writing, reading and have a great weekend.