Monday, 19 May 2025

Never Even Consider Copying Someone Else

Be yourself

Do you know what’s the most important thing about being creative?

Being authentic.

Being yourself and writing in your own voice.

There is no other way.

Years ago, someone tried hard to be me. He even bought my website for writers (Writeaholics.net) and published all my old articles on it.

Naturally, it was a huge failure.

Why?

Because he’s not me. The articles on that website were written in my voice so there was no way he could mimic that in the future. So, he didn’t even try.

And because he wasn’t me, he also couldn’t earn money from that website like I did. For one thing, I had a huge number of subscribers who I kept in touch with every week. But I don’t think he knew that. So, while he was failing to earn money from my old website, I began a new site, carried on making money from it in my usual way, and kept on emailing my subscribers.

There was no way that he could earn money from that website because he wasn’t me, so he couldn’t write like me, and he also wasn’t aware of how I was earning money online. How could he?

No one can work the same way someone else does. It’s impossible.

But if there is someone whose books and work ethic you admire, then there’s nothing wrong with letting what they do spark ideas of your own.

Just so long as they are your ideas, and you stay true to yourself.

And if you want to find out more about the guy who bought my website and tried to be me (he even published my old “about” page with my photos and all my information about myself until I told him to take it down), you can read the article that I wrote about it at the time by clicking the link below.

 

Writeaholics.net: Why I Don’t Trust This Website

Monday, 12 May 2025

People Forms Habits, Habits Form Futures

Stop Procrastinating And Take Back Control Of Your Life
    That title is not my own. I ‘borrowed’ it from motivational guru, Mike Litman who said it years ago. And it’s still true.

The reason that we create habits is to make our lives easier. When something we do becomes habitual, we no longer have to think about it. Take walking for example. When you were a baby, learning to walk took a lot of mental and physical effort. But as soon as it became a habit, you could do it without thinking, and you still do.

It’s the same when we learn to drive. At first it seems hard to have to cope with thinking about so many different things at once while trying to be safe on the roads. But once you get your license and start driving more, it becomes a habit and you can get behind the wheel and drive without even thinking about it.

We acquire many habits during our lifetime like daily showering, brushing our teeth, and even walking the dog. These are things that we do without even thinking about them.

I find it’s the same with household chores. I do them several times a week and always at the same time, and I do them without even thinking. People often ask me how I can be bothered, but I tell them that, first, I don't have a lot of furniture (I’m quite the minimalist) and second, I’ve been doing chores for so long that it never bothers me. I’m so used to doing them without thinking that I call it ‘busy hands empty mind’ time so I usually listen to audios while I work because I don’t have to think about what I’m doing.

But you’re probably wondering what this has to do with writing.

Well, you can use habitual routines to get your writing done every day.

If you don’t usually sit and write every day, then doing so takes a lot of thought because you have to remember to do it and you probably have to stop doing other things.

But once you make yourself sit in your writing chair at the same time every day, it quickly becomes a habit, and before you know it, you’re sitting down without even thinking about it.

Most mornings, I do my usual morning routine and do whatever chores I usually do each day and then I go straight to my writing chair. 

When I first started writing professionally, sitting down to write every day was a chore in itself at first, but once it became a habit, it was easy, and now I look forward to it. I like to get other things done first every day so that I can sit down and write, knowing that other things have already been taken care of.

It’s a writing habit that I’ll take with me long into the future because people form habits and habits form futures.


Stop Procrastinating

And Take Back Control Of Your Life

https://www.cheritonhousepublishing.com/books/sp.html 




Monday, 5 May 2025

Don't Let Your Books Be Stolen to Train AI

We all know that many thousands of books have already been stolen to train AI software. Not just literary classics and best sellers, but self-published books too. It seems no books are exempt from being plagiarised by AI software companies. I did a check and found they're using my books too. 

But what can you do? And more importantly, how can you find out if your books have been stolen?

To help, here’s a link to check if your books have been used in this way. Just search for your author name.

Here's another link for an easy way to complain, and hopefully to get it stopped. Complain loud and long if your books have been used in this way.

No doubt AI is going to be the scourge of authors and writers until laws are put in place to stop our work from being stolen to train AI bots. The best way to help is to buy more books to help real authors and writers.

I’ve seen a few things online lately that are said to be written by AI. I can believe it because what I’ve seen so far is awful, especially fiction written by bots. It seems soulless. I know that AI software can help with some aspects of writing, but it cannot do the writing for us, or at least it can’t do it well.

And, if you want to know more about what’s happening and what you can do about stolen books, there’s an article from The Society of Authors that’s helpful.

Stay safe and keep writing.


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Friday, 2 May 2025

When is a Problem Not a Problem?

Too hard to write

How many times have you heard someone say that they want to be a writer, but they just don’t have the time?

If you’re like me (and every other professional writer) the answer is always because they have a job or a family, or they don’t know what to write, yet they swear they have a novel inside them just bursting to be written. But things are always in their way.

All these these are excuses. They are not insurmountable problems. A problem is something to be fixed. If you don’t want to fix it, it’s not a problem.

When I first began writing, I did a writing course, a web design course, a copywriting course, I learned how to self-publish, I read many books about writing and working online, and I talked to others who were already doing what I wanted to do. And I did it all while having a job and a family to look after.

I tell others this and they’ll say, “Yeah, but you’re so energetic and have much more time than me.”

Well, I hate to disappoint them, but I have 24 hours a day just like them.

If you think that you’re not writing because something about your life is holding you back, then you don’t have a problem because you don’t want to fix it.

Just look at Stephen Hawking. He spent most of his life in a wheelchair unable to move, but he didn’t let it stop him from writing. And problems don’t come any bigger than that.

My advice to anyone who thinks they have problems that hold them back from writing, is to start writing.

It really is that simple. 

No problem at all.

 

Mission Critical For Life

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